The answer looks different at 48 than it did at 28. When I was younger, being fit meant something quite different to me. It was about how fast I could run, how hard I could train, how much I could push. There was a version of me that measured a good workout by how exhausted I was at the end of it. More was better. Harder was better. Doing less felt like falling behind. At 48, I still like feeling strong. I still enjoy a good session. And yes, there's still a competitive part

Everything your body has been through is information. Not a setback. The Story We Tell Ourselves There's a version of this most women over 40 know well. You used to move more. Sleep better. Feel steadier. Things that came without much thought now take convincing. And somewhere in the gap between then and now, a quiet story starts running in the background. That you've lost ground. That you're behind. That picking up again means going back to square one. It doesn't. You are no

Because no programme, no expert and no app knows your body better than you do. A few years back I was following a training plan that looked great on paper. Structured. Progressive. Exactly what I thought I needed. But something felt off. My energy was flat, my body felt heavy and I was dreading sessions I used to look forward to. Every logical signal said keep going. Push through. This is what discipline looks like. So, I did. For longer than I should have. And then one day I